As a negative person you never really feel happy with your life, do you?

• You feel the situation in your life is hopeless.
• You are never confident.
• You are never happy in your life.
• You act so pulled down that people do not like to interact with you.

“I feel I am born unlucky” Neelija, my friend told me depressingly.

“Why do you say so?” I asked my friend with concern.

“Well, I didn’t get my expected promotion this year” her voice sounded hopeless.

“Why worry about it? You can get it the next year” I consoled Neelija.

“I feel desperate because I am not earning as much as I want to” she continued dishearteningly.

“Things will improve. So, don’t keep thinking about it” I was beginning to feel that my friend was seeing only the negative side of her life.

“How come all our friends are well off except me?” Neelija sounded irritated

In the one hour we talked, my friend had tons of regrets about her life. She did not utter a single positive word about her. Her interaction with me was full of complaints and grievances that I felt drained and sapped.

My friend was a negative person to the core.

A negative person sucks your energy through his sheer negativity.

Are you one such negative person who has only gloomy outlook towards your life?

Do you know your negative nature makes people deviate from you?

Here is a checklist of a negative person

1. You are never positive

You see only the negative aspects of your life.

Even your tiniest failure drives you to feel you have reached the edge of your life.

You feel you are only one to suffer in the whole world.

“I cannot do it.”

“I won’t succeed.”

“I am a failure.”

“I am born unlucky.”

“Everyone is better off than me.”

Such whining and depressing words, aren’t they?

When you are a negative person, your vocabulary is also negative.

2. You are accusing and blaming.

You never accept your faults.

You feel everyone is out to destroy you.

You never make efforts to succeed and find it easy to blame your fate for your non-performance.

It is always others who commit mistakes while you are always right.

You feel you are always at the receiving end.

You escape blame by pointing accusing fingers at others.

3. You are never humorous

You hardly smile as you feel nothing in your life is worth being happy about.

You have your lips pulled down in gloominess.

You make others feel dragged down by your pessimism.

You look miserable and talk miserably.

4. You never try

You never try to succeed as you are not confident about yourself.

You are more willing to suffer from your problems than try to come out of it.

You keep lamenting that you are an unlucky person not to have experienced any happiness in your life.

You have tons of excuses for the depressing way you live your life.

You are envious about the success of others.

You feel others are successful because of their luck as you do not see the hard work behind their success.

5. You pull down people

You literally pull down the energy of others by saying depressing things.

You are never encouraging.

When others talk to you, you demotivate them by saying only negative words.

Your words are energy drainers that people are averse to interact with you.

Your mood swings alarm people.

Your gloominess puts off others.

5. You are too concentrated on yourself

When you are a negative person you are downright selfish.

You always think about yourself.

You never understand the viewpoint of others as you are too concentrated on your angle.

You never accept the diversified thoughts of others.

You are so self-centered that you want only your thoughts to be implemented.

7. You are always unhappy and dejected

You are unhappy about your past.

You feel miserable that your present is bleak.

You are terrified that your future will also be depressing.

You are never hopeful.

You never count your blessings.

You are not well groomed.

You do not enjoy friendship.

You are not satisfied with your job.

You spend most of your time alone, painting a grim picture of your life.

Top signs of a negative person, isn’t it?

8. You never control your emotions

You are angry at the minutest of provocation.

You are depressed for smallest of your failure.

You are sad for slightest of your loss.

You are accusing for tiniest of faults.

You cry at the drop of a hat.

You are such a negative person that you are unable to control your emotions.

People feel apprehensive to converse with you as they know you might erupt any time.

9. You keep comparing your life

You peep into the life of your friends\relatives and feel they are well off while you have to eat out of your hands.

If your neighbor buys a car, you feel you are unlucky not to have one.

If your friends are successful you feel you are born unlucky not to acquire their success.

You are not satisfied with what you are blessed with as you always compare yourself in a lesser light.

You are more concentrated on comparing your life negatively with others that you lose insight of the good things you have.

10. You never apologize

Your negativity makes you burst out in uncontrolled anger.

Your negativity makes you lack basic etiquette. You never think twice before uttering harsh words.

But you never apologize for your callous behavior as you feel you have done nothing wrong.

Sorry never exists in your vocabulary

Conclusion

“Protect your good image from the eyes of negative viewers, who may look at your good appearance with an ugly fiendish eye, and ruin your positive qualities with their chemical infested tongues.” ―Michael Bassey Johnson

Do you possess these negative qualities?

If so, you are such a negative person that people do not like to interact with you.

Make a change over to convert yourself into a positive person.

Unless you forgo your pessimistic outlook, your life will forever be a never-ending procession of depression and dejection.