How wonderful it would be, if there were ways to predict your future?

It would be nice to know what will happen to you, many years from now, isn’t it?

But most of you dread to predict your future, as you have many negative thoughts about it.

Do you know why?

When you are facing a traumatic phase of your life, you are sure you will never recover from your present pitiable situation. You lose hope, because you link your miserable present to your even more miserable future.  You cringe in fear, as to how your future is going to be.

Most of us experience such a terrified feeling about our future, in some phase of our life.

When you fear your future, you ask yourself many distressing questions.

“Will my future life continue to be as depressing as it is now?”

“Is there any hope for me?”

When you are undergoing failures and defeats in your present life, your depressed mind has only negative predictions about your future. Your present pitiable situation, makes you feel that you will suffer million times more in your future.

Why do you predict your future as a failure, when you could have easily predicted your future success and triumph?

It is because your negative mindset never comes out of its misery. Your negativity makes your mind convinced, that you will be a perpetual failure.

My experience

When I was facing the most harrowing phase of my life, I predicted that my future would be bleak and barren. It was because, I related my wretched present to my even more distressing future. But I realized, that my fear about my future was making it impossible for me to face my present situation confidently.

So, I geared up all my inner strength to shove away negative thoughts about my future right out of my mind. I knew that if I must come out my miserable situation, I must forgo my fear about my future.

When I took stock of my present miserable situation, I realized I had tons of life experiences which could help others. I also knew, that my experiences could be a lesson to many. I was confident, that my bitter life experiences gave me a leverage to implant courage in everyone who was suffering.

I became a writer, to motivate people that every suffering has an end. I now have two blogs. My relationship blog, www.breezystorm.com deals with the problems married couples face. My self-improvement blog www.lifereveals.com  deals with life problems. I also have three YouTube channels, dealing with all sort of life and relationship problems. Though I am not a great success at present, I can easily predict that I would hit my victory jackpot in the near future.

I overcame my negativity, by becoming an author to my own life.  The author in me realized, that my present hard work will be rewarded richly in the near future.

Are you still confused about how becoming an author to your life, could help you predict your future?

Let me explain through a small example.

Let us suppose, you are writing a story about a man struggling hard for his success. In the initial pages of your story, you will be writing about the struggles of the man. In the subsequent pages, you will be writing about the man’s hard work and perseverance.

As an author, how will you end the story?

You well know, that you should end the story with the result about the man’s struggle. You cannot end the story, as the man failing. If you do so, your initial detailing about the man’s struggle becomes meaningless. Even a layman, will predict that you will end the story as the man achieving incredible success.

How was it possible for the viewers to predict success for the man, when no one knew how you were going to conclude your story?

It was because, the viewers were looking at the life of the man from a third-party angle. When your viewers travelled along with the man, in all his struggles and hard work, they knew that there could be only one conclusion – the man’s inevitable victory.  Your viewers knew you could not end your story otherwise.

Can you see how easy it was to predict the victory of the man, when viewers looked at the man’s life from a third-party angle?

So, if you want to predict your future, you too must become a third party to your own life. When you become a third-party to your own life, you have an unbiased view about how you are going about your life. You will see, that you can predict your future by the way you are living your present life.

You know that when you are hard-working in spite of your failures, your future will be full of success and achievements. You become doubtful about your future, only when you are not trying to succeed in life.

Predicting your future is as simple as this.

So, when you are dedicated and committed to your work, you will succeed. When you are trying, even while you are failing continuously, it is inevitable you will win finally.

But when you let your trying midway, you can predict that your future life will be an abject failure. Your future is connected to the way you lead your present life. If your present life is full of relentless work, dedication and passion, your future success is easily predictable.

Predicting the future of many aspects of your life is also easy.

When your relationship with your spouse, is full of love, adjustment, compatibility, tolerance, and care, you can easily predict that your married life will be a grand success. When your relationship does not have any of these qualities, the inevitable prediction will be a dismal married life.

You can also predict the future of your children. When you bring up your children, by teaching them the true values of life, you can predict that they will evolve into good human beings.

Conclusion 

“The best way to predict the future is to create it.” Peter Drucker

You cannot predict, when you are going to die. It is in God’s hands. But the way you lead your life, and the way you try for your success is all in your hands.

What you do in your present life, will decide what you will become in your future life. Your life is like a lump of clay. You can mold it, as you want it to be.

Your positive thoughts are like your savings account. You can withdraw success from it. Your perseverance is like a fixed deposit. It will definitely help you through your hard times. The end product of your hard work is a postdated cheque, promising you of a massive affluence you never dreamed will be yours.

Can you now see how easy it is to predict your future?